Addressing the Couple Who Likes to Owe
wasteful habits are usually caused by the relevant person tends to think short and oversimplify the problem. Usually not easy to be changed, but not impossible.
According to my suggestion, there are couple of things to do to gradually reduce the wasteful nature of the husband’s mother. First of all, ask her husband Mother to speak openly from the heart to heart about the purpose of households that Mom and Mom’s husband built together. Whatever you want to achieve, whether momentary pleasure or passion that led to peace and happiness of all family members? I am sure the options are a second answer.
Remind her husband Mother to set financial goals to be achieved in the short term, medium term and long term as well as the risks that may be faced if these goals are not achieved. For example, funding needs for the base of the little money into primary schools next year. If the required funds are not sufficient, there is little risk of not getting a quality education in schools is lower or even go to school should be delayed until next year. Of her husband she did not want this thing.
Encourage the mother’s husband to be more able to distinguish between needs and wants. Perform review and remind when he bought the goods that only fulfill her desire alone.
Do also efforts “assistance” every time he want to shop in order to help provide pertimbangan2 so keinginan2nya impulsive nature can be a little muted.
Initially, he may feel uncomfortable with the attitude of this mother, but from mother to do everything with a fine and decent words, if done consistently then I’m sure he will appreciate the effort my mother. Good luck!
Furthermore, the attitude of my mother’s husband who likes to owe, I am afraid this is because the attitude borosnya. Thus, if the attitude has been reduced boroughs I hope his favorite debt is also reduced.
However, additional information just for Mom, understanding that there is in society in general towards the debt is likely to be less well, such that the debt of its “strangle” ‘people who owe most is people can not afford (hence need to be in debt to meet their needs); someone who owes his life greater meaning than the pole pegs, and so forth. Lack of proper understanding of this can cause a variety of negative attitudes such as a priori attitude, fear and excessive worry, embarrassment, until the anti against debt itself.
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